NARCISSISM IS NECESSARY

Had steamboat dinner with my Mom today. We ate chive dumplings, which reminded mom of something from her childhood. According to Mom, when she was a small girl, she used to keep a coin in her mouth. It drove my granny crazy! I asked Mom why she did such a gross thing and she said [...]

When it comes to relationships with other people, don’t focus on what their motives or intentions are. Don’t focus on their speeches. Focus on their actions instead. Actions are tangible while thoughts and speeches are not. Because you will never, ever truly know what people’s minds are thinking….you will just end up hurting yourself & [...]

I’ve always told people that I have no desire to have any daughter because of how I was when I was a child. Calling my younger self a nightmare is an understatement. Ran away from home. Played truant. Intercepted letters from school addressed to my parents for playing truant. Did badly in school. Eating disorders. [...]

Have been hearing this question over and over again from completely different people eversince we got married. My default answer is, “good” or “same”. I guess it’s a making small talk kinda question and people probably aren’t really that interested in finding out. Kind of like “How do you do?” but in a slightly more [...]

A couple of weeks ago, I received an email from a renowned wedding website asking if they could feature me as their bride of the month. I was quite thrilled and excitedly checked out their stories on their previous brides of the month. Being a bridezilla, I immediately looked through my wedding album for similar [...]